How do you get a new baby use to daddy
My infant doesn’t like his father
My 3 months old son James seems to not like his father. Every time my husband holds James, he starts crying until he puts him down and I come. I do not understand why he is like that. Our first child Sam did not have this problem.
My husband is a great father and loves his son. I know he gets upset by James not seeming liking him. It is braking my heart every time this happens. My husband just tries to laugh if off but now he seems like he does not to want to hold James because he says he does not want to upset him.
Please any advise would be helpful. I would like to stop this as quickly as possible before it becomes an even bigger issue.
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Tuesday, Nov. 10th 2009 1:56 PM at 1:56 pm
I am sure that your new born baby does not dislike his father. Part of the problem sometimes with new born is that they see their mom as the primary provider.
That being said hanging out with Dad that does not feed him is not important to him right now. Some of the things you can try and do would be having dad feed him if you bottle feed. If you breast feed then have your husband be in the room with him while you feed the baby.
This may take a little time for your baby to adjust but it is worth the time. Do not get upset that your son may cry at first he will soon enough get over it.
Tuesday, Nov. 10th 2009 3:37 PM at 3:37 pm
One I know that it is hard to not be hurt by a baby the seems like they may not like you. My son was the same way. Your husband need to realize that he son does not dislike him, and to not take his crying personally.
Your baby just may be more co depended on you right now and that may be why he only at this time wants your attention. This happen a lot to babies that breast feed.
If you do breast feed try letting your husband bottle feed James once a day at the same time. That way your son will see that both parents can feed him. It may take time for your son to adjust but keep in mind he is only a baby and to not take anything personal.